Saturday, 28 March 2015
Days 6-8: Settling in
Saturday, Day 6, felt like a somewhat normal day, except instead of watching March Madness, Thomas and Sam watched part of the Six Nations Rugby tournament on the teli. There is a dry cleaner at the bottom of our building (yes....at the bottom of our quiet little complex is a coffee shop, what one referred to as "the best Chinese restaurant in Ireland," a hair salon, and a dry cleaner. They tout that they have same day service, but I dropped it off on Thurs, and he said it would be ready Sat morning. Well, Thomas went down 4 times to get it, and every time the guy, a Persian, told him "Half hour longer."
After acquiring Thomas's clothes we all headed over to look at cars at a dealership. In perfect Irish fashion, the front desk lady made us tea and frothy hot chocolate made from real, fresh milk (none of that powdered stuff you mix with water with a little red straw that does nothing) and biscuits. It was refreshing that our salesperson was a young, jovial Irishmen, because our temporary area of town apparently is known as a haven for foreign nationals from Eastern Europe and the Middle East. I love how Irish people do things well, but yet in a relaxed way. For instance, in a place where you would typically see cars in pristine condition in the U.S., when we opened up the boot to take a look we found some old shoes, a half drank water bottle, and some books. We chuckled when Dave, our sales rep said, "Ah yeah. You just never know what yiz'll find when when Carrick takes a car home." WE all joked about making room for the kids in the boot when we have company, etc. We decided upon a VW "People Carrier" (7 seater) to have room for guests (but how will I park that thing?) and an Audi something or other. That's what we picked, at least, but, also in true Irish fashion, we are still waiting to find out what is going on with actually getting the leased cars in our hands. (Irleand doesn't really lease cars usually, but VW and Audi and a couple others got smart and realized that ex-pats need to lease cars, so they have a program with Dell and other businesses)I
After resting up a bit, we took the LUAS light rail (just down the street from us....so convenient and a great line) into City Centre. The had no idea what a huge deal this Six Nations thing is! People spilled out of the pubs, and tv's were outside on the side walks for the overflow so that people could cheer for the games....not for Ireland at this point, though....for certain other teams to lose so that Ireland, by default, would eventually win the whole thing! We had all been dying for some real fish and chips, and we read that one o the best places was Burdocks, so we found one on the map, in the perfect location to be convenient for our next activity, and we discovered that this is a take-away restaurant only...no seating. The weather so far has been cool but pretty nice, but when the sun goes down it gets quite chilly. But we had no choice....we carried our heavy, hot paper packets of goodness over to the Christ Church grounds and sat on a low wall, in the dark cold, eating every delectable, warming bite that made us completely forget that our butts were sore and our hands were cold. This was the perfect location to eat because our next stop happened to be 1000 year old Christ Church to listen to a choir and orchestra perform Handel's Messiah. Handel was German born, and lived in Britain, but Dublin was the location of the premiere of this, later to become one of his most infamous works, in 1742. What a treat! Sam was totally exhausted, so we ended up cutting short our attendance, knowing that we had the walk and train ride ahead of us, and wanting to take care of his needs.
Sunday, Day 7 found us late to 11 am Mass at that pretty little church in Sandyford. Mass moves so quickly here that we had already missed the Liturgy of the Word and they were on the Intentions so, disappointed, we decided it would be better to come back that night. We were glad we did, and we think it may have been "part of the plan" because after Mass that evening we were stopped by some friendly people (no! In Ireland?) to compliment the children. They started up a discussion, which led to homeschooling, which led to them telling us that there is a family in the parish that homeschools, and her husband works in the parish office! That connection was no coincidence, and which was cemented later. We were moved by the beautiful shine for St. Therese of Liseux, the Little Flower, and I thought of Jenny Klement (Hope you see this, Jenny) and Kendra (who mentioned her recently) Behind the statue was a mural of the main events of St. Terese's life, which Lucy recognized immediately. Outside, I also was struck by the crown of starts lit up around Mary's head.
Monday, Day 8 -- Thomas had an intense week at work with the board meetings and the president of the bank (his boss) gone, so he was flying solo. Huge learning curve. Anyway, it became clear to me that there was alot left that needed to be done to complete the relo, and Thomas really needed my help to do some things, so I spent quite a bit of time on the computer, while the kids worked on their schoolwork. We also managed to have their personal trainer continue to work with them twice a week via Skype. It works really sell....WE bought exercise equipment, and we just move the sofas and coffee table back, and she works them out hard! WE also have a really big balcony patio which Sam and I utilize quiite a bit for jump roping. Sam has been into leaning how to cross jump rope. Went to the store for maybe the 6th time....we have to go frequently because the fridge is small, the items are small, the food is fresh and spoils pretty quickly, and we can only carry so much. This day, after we crossed the street and were on the sidewalk about to head home, I realized that I had forgotten rubbish sacks (trash bags), and I needed to turn around and go back. The kids were beaming when I suggested that maybe they could walk home on their own and I would get there later. They made it to the building, punched in teh key, rode the elevator, opened up with the key card, and began unloading groceries. We have noticed really big growth in terms of independence since we have been here. I was also proud of Lucy this week because her trainer pointed out that when she started working with the kids Lucy couldn't even do one sit up, but this day, all in all, she did SIXTY! I am hoping all this walking everywhere will be good for her/their fitness and tone.
Falling asleep and tonight is time change so it is WAY later than I need to be up, so I will end here. Remind me to start on Tues, Day 9. That was an interesting day!
Day 5 Surprises Every Day
There's a lot of catching up to do! I would not go so far as to say "I've been too busy to blog," as the kind of " busyness that we have experiences has been one of choice, factoring in down time, relaxation, and fun, so it is really not the kind of "too busy" that I am accustomed to, where there truly is no time whatsoever to do "frivolous things" such as blogging. Instead, the fullness of our days has been more about living in the moment, being present, responding to our inner desires, to the prompting of the Holy Spirit, and to the bumps in the road that come up, as He leads us on our journey each day. Each day I wake up I feel excited about what the day may hold....whether it be planned or unplanned. I really do have a sense of Jesus being a friend walking alongside me, taking me to new places and exploring new possibilities. These last 2 weeks of adventure and reconnection with my family have felt like a wonderful gift from my loving God.
Here is a recap:
Fri, Day 5 -- Researched a little and found the local churches. Decided to go for the oldest one. Drove for the first time, and it is always an invigorating experience to drive here, likened to what it felt like to drive at age 15 or 16, when I first felt the freedom, power and responsibility of that steering wheel in my hands....only this time that wheel is on the right side of the car! I forgot that in an apartment one must allow time for traveling down the elevator, walking and driving through the parking garage, and punching in the code to get out. Then, one driving in another country for only the second time in one's life, one must allow for mistakes and wrong turns. Subsequently, we made it to daily Mass 15 min late, and they were already serving communion, so we turned around and left. But just finding the church, just making it there, was the fun part. And I was pleasantly surprised by what we found. The area of Sandyford that we are living in is an industrial, modern area....more reminiscent of modern day Slovakia than of old-world Ireland.
But here, in this pocket that is the gem called Sandyford Village, I found the comfort of the real Irish village I have longed to see again. Across from the Ground coffee shop and outdoor shop (with the equestrian uniform hanging on the fence as a representative of their wears -- the village is close to Leopardstown Horse Racecourse http://www.leopardstown.com/Leopardstown/Home/), and behind the grey stone wall, is nestled the beautiful and picturesque 19th century St. Mary's of Sandyford, surrounded by green grass and daffodils and roses. The grounds are immaculate. The only parking is behind the pub next door. The flyers in the foyer demonstrated the activity and welcoming attitude of the parish. We so looked forward to coming back to this church and the village it lives in.
It has been really fun and convenient to have "Barista's" coffee shop just downstairs from us. The children and I enjoyed teatime that afternoon, with gorgeous scones, cream, butter, and jam. That night we enjoyed introducing Thomas to Sandyford village when we went to the local pub for a lovely Lenten fish on Friday dinner. The pub is very clean and upscale....where the locals hang out, but quite a nice restaurant as well. Horseracing was on TV, and the haike was amazing! Thomas and I felt it was some of the best fish we have ever had.
More to come....
Saturday, 21 March 2015
Catching up on Days 2-4
Days 2-4
19 March 2015
Yes, we are in a first world country of English speakers, but that is about as far as the similarities go. Every thing we do is an adventure and takes a bit of thought.
Grocery shopping....EVERYTHING is different. Wow. From the pre-bagged produce, to the different brands of cereal and hand soap and paper towels. My paper towel lovin self is facing some adjustments! Each square is 2/3 the size, each roll is half the size, and each pack is half the size. Not to mention that no bathrooms have paper towels....only blowers. More later on the shopping.
Thomas was the first to drive on the left side of the road. Did a famous job, but parking was a bear. We have a small minivan and are assigned a spot in the parking garage with a pole on one side, and another car on the other, so squeezing in that tight spot while sitting on the right side of the car is like threading a needle with your non-dominant hand.
Getting out of the parking lot of the shopping center was interesting. Came to the gate and fed our ticket into the slot, expecting to put our credit card in the slot below it, after which our ticket popped back out at us. The arm remained down. Repeat. Arm down. Repeat. Arm down. Call button.
"Hello?"
"Uh, yeah, I'm trying to get out of here."
"Um. Right."
"So I put my ticket in the slot, but nothing happens."
"Yeah. Did yiz pay?"
"That's what I'm trying to do."
"Where are yiz?"
"At the gate. It keeps spitting out my ticket and I can't figure out how to pay."
"Ah, right. Yeah, yiz need to go to the pay station."
So....we back up back into the garage (Thank God no cars behind) and find the walk up pay station.
Then there's "regular life" stuff like dishes, cooking, laundry. Again...a learning experience. Of course I have to do conversions from Celsius to Fahrenheit for cooking, and it took me two days to figure out what the symbols meant in order to turn it on to the right setting! For cleaning clothes we have ONE machine which is a combo of washing machine and dryer. I think perhaps European kids have a course in school to know how to use this thing. Lots of trial and error, frustration, patience and finally I manage to get a very small clean, dry pile of clothes. Now if only I can recreate what I just did to make that happen!
The boiler and water heater knocks very loudly like a monster in the closet. One thing I love is how warm and cozy it is in the apartment without being dry and stuffy. The wall heaters give a nice radiant warmth, and most of the time we have them completely off because they flat is insulated and sealed so well as to keep any drafts out. The weather has been really surprisingly beautiful! Mostly sunshine and crisp. Beautiful clue skies. I have not felt cold at all so far. Less cold than Texas with the warm home and appropriate clothes. We have learned the concept of wool socks and undershirts, and we're good to GO!
Obviously St. Patrick's Day was a sight to see. What a fun day! It started out with a jam packed, exciting ride on the Luas train. Public transit....another novelty for us. The train station is just down the street. Probably 50 meters or so. Very convenient. Clean and nice, above ground light rail. People were in a grand mood and many were all dressed up. One thing I noticed is that everyone includes orange in their attire. (In the States is seems to be only green and white) Decorations are the same....lots of green, orange and white balloons, penants, and flags around. Thomas is able to ride it to work in the mornings....at least for two weeks while we are in our temporary apartment. Sam said, "This is the best day of my life! I am in Dublin for St. Patrick's Day and it is AWESOME!" Such good craic with Niall and Mel and their kids , Alex and Evie. Face painting (butterfly for Evie. Shamrocks for Lucy. Celtic cross for me.) Peeks at the parade. Leprechauns. Visit to St. Stephen's Green (beautiful park). People watching. Conversation. Later...on our own....a stop for lunch/brunch at one of our favorite spots...Hatch And Sons. The good is gorgeous! Some live music in the street. Then things were starting to get a bit rowdy around 4 or 5ish. Lots of revelry as we headed toward Temple Bar area. Stopped for some water and the loo at a coffee bar where T started a conversation with the owner who expressed his embarrassment for the way the young people were acting in the streets. He was standing at the door telling some people they were closed and others to come on in (based on age and how they were acting). Us? He liked us, so he gave us a bag full of homemade scones and muffins for free. He gave his typical Irish-like directions to White Friar Church, which, not surprisingly, landed us in a state of "lostivity". Now we were running late for our obligatory Holy Day Mass, but as we were walking in the general direction I happened to see a statue behind a gate which belonged to a Carmelite Monestary named after St. Teresa of Avila, and the just so happened to have Mass at 6 pm (which is was at that moment...straight up!) Beautiful little church right off of Grafton St. In all the visits Thomas has made, he has never been aware of this church right off the main street. In fact, when I found it on Google, literally ON THE MAP it is described as a "tucked away Catholic house of worship," and after clicking on it, it says, "19th-century Catholic Carmelite church and cafe, hidden away from the nearby shopping bustle." That is a great way to describe it...hidden, tucked away, peaceful, obscure. Fr. Stephen delivered a fantastic, fiery homily on being unafraid to follow in the footsteps of St. Patrick, whose influence spread to the far reaches of the earth. He likened the "invasion" of Britain which threatened the life of the Catholic Church to the "invasion" that continues to happen in today's culture that tries to dismiss God, the Church, morals, ethics, and a spirit of other-centeredness and goodness.
Sam was falling apart knackered, so we headed back and ended the day with Italian food just down from our apartment, sitting next to a table full of a victorious Ukranian women's hockey team.
Apartment living is also a new experience for us all! Six flights of stairs, codes to get in the front door. On top of a coffee shop, a hair salon, dry cleaner, and a Chinese restaurant. Walking distance to supermarket, department store, Spar convenience store, Italian food, and the train. Tiny master shower, which had a door that kicked open anytime you moved, which flooded the bathroom, until I spoke to the office who took care of the issue straight away. "Outdoor space" is a large, full length balcony where Sam has taken to learning to cross jump rope. Nice view from the 6th floor. Big windows. Lots of light. We are Skyping PE with their trainer, which has been fun and interesting. The kids are quite intrigued by apartment living. At one point Sam said, "I didn't think I would like this, but I LOVE that we walk EVERYWHERE! It's so fun!" One day, after the store (we have to go every 1-2 days since we have a small fridge and carry our items home), I realized I had forgotten to get bin bags/refuse sacks (trash bags), so I allowed the kids to walk home and let themselves into the building with the code and up the elevator to our flat. That was sooo exciting for them to be so independent!!
We walked to the rental furniture place to pick out furniture, which was great fun. The furniture to choose from is a little more modern than my taste, but I sense that the style (traditional European) that I would have liked is too expensive. But this furniture is cheerful and fashionable, and I think it'll be nice.
We have been attempting to do school with some success. Life is school right now! But the basics have been covered, and then some.
Thomas and Sam are watching Wales about to beat Italy in the rugby match on TV, and we must leave RIGHT NOW to go look for a car before they close at 1600 (4 pm) and then enjoy the gorgeous day.
More to come!
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